One concept that carries over to any career or aspect of life is impression management. In the textbook impression management is defined as the act of presenting a favorable public image of oneself so that others will form positive judgments (Newman, 175). But their are many negative connotations associated with how people look.
I personally do not have any tattoos but very well could get one someday. Tattoos are consider taboo in the professional world and carry a rebellious connotation. But what would you do if you showed up and your doctor was covered in tattoos? Most people would probably consider that as a lack of respect for their bodies and/or lacking the knowledge to make rational decisions that could effect their future.
Well this man may very well be your doctor:
A rapper has the connotation of being a trouble-making rebel. One in particular smokes marijuana, was allegedly part of cocaine trafficking, and raps vulgar language in all of his albums. But would you believe the same person gives a large sum of his time and money to help others out? If he is such a bad person why does he use the money he earned to give back? This rapper goes by Young Jeezy and every major holiday he goes around to less fortunate schools and organizations to give back. Check out the awesome videos of how he brings a smile to kids and adults faces alike:
I hope these examples make you control your impression management better. Just because someone portrays a negative image certainly doesn't mean that they have cruel intentions. This is America and everyone has the opportunity to express themselves. Next time you see a man filled with tattoos don't ASSUME that he is horrible person making irrational decisions with his life. And if you happen to see a woman walking down the street in a short skirt don't ASSUME that she is scandalous woman with no respect for her body. Not everyone wants to portray a positive impression, they just want to be unique. Sometimes its the individuality that makes a person beautiful. Just remember if you ASSUME it just makes and ASS out of U and ME.
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